change and life


Last week my house felt empty. One of my kids is in Brooklyn, the other Manhattan (I have no idea where they get this need to travel…)

Now there were plenty of times in the last eighteen years of being a parent, that I longed for the peace and quiet of an empty house, but with my daughter leaving for college this month, this particular emptiness signaled a little too much CHANGE.

Change is a tricky thing.

So I got a little teary (okay maybe a lot) but then I realized I possessed something I really hadn’t had in a LONG time.


My husband and I could technically just go somewhere. Take a road trip.

I love road trips. I’ve done lots, but I think all were carefully planned, strategically mapped out. At least since becoming a parent. Because leaving your kids can be a big production, even (especially?) when they’re teenagers.

But I wondered, what if we left on a whim? Last minute, without any advance planning. So, I called my hub, and then, three hours later, we’d both untangled ourselves from work and hit the road.

We were gone for only thirty-one hours. But we saw SO much. Check out the highlights:


traveling on a whim

Heading west from Richmond, Virginia.

I don’t know what it is about rolling pastures (and barns, and cows), but they make me smile.


road trip Virginia

We stopped at The Homestead in Hot Springs, Virginia. 


road trip attractions

Meet Jake. You can find him at The Homestead stables.


road trip scenery

Meet…um, Bob. You can find him on the purple cone flowers.


road trip fuel

Coffee (a very important road trip ingredient) in fancy, historic, Jeffersonian china.


the trout pond the homestead

Me and hub taking a selfie. That look in my eyes makes me think I drank too much coffee.


scenic waterfalls

When we started driving again, we saw this out the car window on route 220. Falling Springs Falls. I love waterfalls, so we stopped. When we saw people at the top of the falls, we investigated…


roadside finds Virginia

A swimming hole! With a rope for swinging! I felt like a kid. 


road trip virginia

Next we stopped at Natural Bridge. Nature is pretty awesome.



And nature is occasionally frightening. Meet…Stella? Not sure. I didn’t get a name. I think Stella guards the bridge. She’s big enough.


butterflies and change

Natural Bridge also has a butterfly house.  

Without change, there is no butterfly. 🙂


stonehenge replica roadside attractions

Last stop before home…Stonehenge,England?? 


roadside attractions virginia


A Styrofoam replica of Stonehenge by artist, Mark Cline.

(Just a short drive from the Natural Bridge.)


Then, home again, home again, jiggety-jig.


What are your thoughts on spontaneity? Have you seen any interesting roadside attractions? 

Happy Monday!

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48 thoughts on “Spontaneous Road Trip: How Much Can You See in One Day?

  1. clay

    I have been dreaming of being able to do this in say… October or November and just get away from it all, but then there’s work and the kids….. I am sure you and the your husband had a wonderful time – 31 hours probably felt like a week. Great photos…. it’s gonna be a great day!
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  2. Pat O'Dea Rosen

    I’ve got to take spontaneity lessons from you, Coleen. My husband and I also went out of town for approximately 31 hours, but there was little unplanned about it. That said, we stopped at a new-to-us dockside restaurant on Lake Travis and liked the place. The surprise was the sight of dozens of big catfish jockeying for bits of leftovers kids and adults tossed into the water. We’re talking feeding frenzy. When people tell me publishing’s hard, I’ll think of those catfish, with their mouths wide open and ready to chomp. That’s competition!

    Your photos are, indeed, wonderful. That swimming hole looks inviting, and Stella’s one scary gatekeeper.
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    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      Wow. My hub would’ve got a kick out of the fish feeding frenzy! I’m spontaneous to a point. If I start thinking too much, then all is kind of lost… 🙂 It’s good to turn off my brain every now and then. Thanks, Pat!

    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      I got closer to that spider than even I would’ve imagined, but I really couldn’t believe how big it was! Later I started thinking things like, what if that spider had jumped on me?? 🙂

  3. Patricia Tilton

    Good for you and your husband! Sounds like a really wonderful time. I’m glad you made the trip — your pictures always convery so much! I love traveling, but I can’t say I’ve gotten into a car and just start driving and exploring as I went. I applaud you! Sounds like a great time!

  4. Catherine

    That all looks wonderful! We’d have to drive for hours and hours to see all that. Probably why I love Pinterest and reading. It’s great that you passed on a love of travel to your kids.

  5. Melinda VanLone

    Oh how fun! You make me want to take a road trip. Kudos to you and your hubby for seizing the moment. I especially want to go see the styrofoam stonehenge. Wonder how far of a drive that is for me heh.

    Beautiful shots!

  6. tomwisk

    You’ve done it, darn you. I was happy vegging at home and you post lovely pictures of laces not to far from me. Now I have to go. Do they have Wi-Fi?

  7. Kathryn Chastain Treat

    I love spontaneity! The hard part is that we can only go as far as we can go and return in the same day, no overnighters for me. I also have to plan on food just in case I can’t find anything safe to eat on our drive. It is not beginning to sound very spontaneous is it?

    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      That does put a damper on spontaneity, Kathryn. Now if you had an RV equipped with everything you needed, THEN you could go last minute. I’m coming up with some very expensive suggestions aren’t I?

  8. Jennette Marie Powell

    I can’t remember the last time I did something spontaneous like this – what a blast! With the daughter going off to college, maybe we can do something like this again. Not that she really stopped us recently – but wow, what a great reminder of how we all get so caught up in the everyday, mundane stuff. Thanks for sharing!
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  9. Patricia

    That looks like it was so much fun. I hope you get to take many many more spontaneous road trips.

    The last time I took the time to drive for the sheer pleasure of driving and seeing the sights, was a very long time ago. I’ve moved that activity to the top of my bucket list.

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  10. Emily R. King

    I may never make it to Stonehenge, but Foamhenge looks just as awesome! And I literally shuddered when I saw “Stella.” No spider appreciation from me!

    I’m glad you had a fun road trip!

  11. Leigh Covington

    I love all the pictures except the spider. Now I feel like that sucker is on me, or lurking in my room. *shudders* The rest of the trip sounds fabulous and I’m all about spontaneity! Glad you had fun!

  12. Lynn Kelley

    Oh, wow, Coleen, this is an awesome Photo essay. I love how you tied everything together. There’s something peaceful about rolling pastures, and barns, and cows. And that waterfall that led to the swimming hole! Super cool. Thanks for the inspiration!

  13. Alarna Rose Gray

    Hey Coleen, what a gorgeous thing to do, and your pics are stunning as always (yes, even that creepy spider 😉 ). We’re on a bit of a wavelength again, because I just took a spontaneous road trip last week…and copped a fine for the pleasure of the Sunday drive! Still, it was beautiful 🙂 Trust you felt much better after your trip.

    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      Thanks, Alarna. Of course you did a road trip the same time as me. With us being almost on opposite sides of the globe, we have to keep things in balance!

  14. Karen McFarland

    That was an amazing 31 hours Coleen! You and hubby make a wonderful pair. And your outfits blended so well. Was that on purpose or a random mistake? Love your pics. I feel like I’m the one that got away. Yet, hold on tight girl. It’s tough when the oldest moves out. My two moved out together all at once. It about killed me. Too much of a shock. One at a time is much, much better. May the force be with you. And spontaneity! 🙂

    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      Random mistake. Although we tend to end up matching somehow. Must be a thing when you’re together for a couple of decades! And thanks for warning, I will keep the force close. 🙂

    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      Stella is scary. You should’ve seen how many people scooted out of her way, when they happened to notice her on the rocks. Thanks, Tameri!

  15. Maria Smith

    Wow! Love your images, amazing what you can capture in such a short period of time isn’t it?

    Regards children leaving home, I can so identify with you. my son went off to love on his own in April, and I cried…it was so unexpected. I miss him loads, we have a great relationship, but he wanted to stand on his own two feet.

    This time next year, my daughter will probably go off to college, or university, and I am sure I’ll feel a little empty. Perhaps I should plan a road trip too…

    1. Coleen Patrick Post author

      Even though I know it’s a normal thing for them to go, the empty thing is hard to deny. Road trips and other things that make you happy seem to help. I think. 🙂 Thanks, Maria!

  16. Lauri Meyers

    Spontaneous Roadtrip! Without diapers? Without snacks? Without a plan? Without a hundred potty breaks? Without Barbie movies playing in the backseat? Without someone kicking your back while you drive? Without someone screaming they dropped a crayon? Sounds terrible…
    P.S. I remember Stella from a visit in 2000. Eww!

  17. Leigh Covington

    I LOVE barns too! I’ve always wanted to get a family picture done with a barn in the background but I haven’t found one nearly as great as these are! Beautiful!

  18. Denise Hisey

    Wonderful!!!! I love spontaneous 🙂
    My daughter and I did a spontaneous road trip spanning Wyoming, Kansas, Nebraska, South Dakota, and Colorado in 3 days and 1800 miles. We just got a notion and headed out. Saw Car Henge, Mt Rushmore, a Wild Horse Sanctuary, Dinosaur museum, and lots of corn fields! 🙂
    Hubby and I just got back from a planned trip, but had some spontaneous points, too!

    Congrats on kids moving out… I cried like a baby for months, but will attest that not only do you adapt, but eventually you enjoy. Hang in there, mom!!

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